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Ah, modern dating—an exhilarating expedition through a tangled web of swipes, likes, and micro-expressions that always seems to teeter precariously between delightful romance and all-out social disaster. 

It is a curious landscape where relationships are formed over coffee and awkward silences, often accompanied by the dizzying glow of our ever-faithful smartphones. As I embark on this labyrinthine journey known as dating in the 21st century, I can’t help but reflect on the importance of etiquette—the unwritten rules that govern human interaction and ensure our romantic escapades remain safe, respectful, and, dare I say, fun. 

Politeness, in this frenetic backdrop of online profiles and DM slide-ins, acts as our steadfast compass amid the chaos. One moment we’re sharing a delightful anecdote over sushi, and the next, we’re grappling with the existential dread of whether we should text again or simply vanish into the ether of ghosting (don't ghost. Ever... more about ghosting on my next blog. 

Sifting through this mix, good dating etiquette emerges as our lifeline, a reminder that even in this fast-paced world, the essence of connection lies in our ability to treat one another with kindness and grace. 

So, as we navigate late-night rendezvous and braving the uncharted waters of online flirting, let’s explore the etiquette of modern dating together. Here are five examples of good etiquette behavior to keep in mind:

- Be Timely: Arriving on time isn’t just courteous; it shows your date that you respect their time as much as your own. 
- Put Your Phone Away: Engage fully by resisting the urge to check your messages. After all, you’re here for each other, not for a social media scrolling marathon.
- Active Listening: Demonstrating genuine interest in what your date says fosters connection and builds trust, two vital elements for any relationship.
- Clear Communication: Whether it’s expressing interest or gently turning down a second date, honesty wrapped in kindness can save a great deal of misunderstanding.
- Mind Your Manners: Basic decorum, like saying "please" and "thank you," goes a long way in making your companion feel valued and appreciated.

Surprisingly, the nuances of dating etiquette are often overlooked early in one's dating journey. Let's bring them back!

Take care, be kind,

Michael